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arrica ah seh:
i love this story because it happens everyday all over the world.I have found myself in this situaion and I dont know why I let it continue cause I knew in my heart that it was wrong but wrong for who? me, him, or her.In the begining nothing mattered but him and I.I thought that this was enough.Love is funny like that.But I should have listened to the smart people around me.Someone told me that a person can not live of water alone.Love is the same,Love needs foundation.I guess it all boiled down to what I needed and what was best for me.I asked myself are you really able to settle and how much could I take.In the end I decided it was not worth the headache and pain and the nonsense was just to much.
Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006

Burgundy ah seh:
I myself am The Other woman in a relationship. The man I am with has been married for eight years. He tells me he is in the marriage simply for his children, whom I have met and have fallen in love with. He and I have a physical relationship as of now, but as two years becomes our upcoming milestone he is beginning to tell me he loves me. I honestly dont want to ever see myself in a serious relationship with him, simply because I know he may not take our union seriously and he may ultimately cheat on and leave me like he is now doing his wife. But I must admit my heart is now playing a co-starring role in this so called relationship. I just hope I can back out before it goes too far.
Posted: Wednesday September 20th, 2006

luv_moonschild ah seh:
Monogamy is possible, shoot anything is possible. But the question at hand is, is monogamy normal?
It’s a known fact that people, us as human’s can love more than one person at a time. We do it all the time we love our husbands, our children, and our family in general. So it is possible for men and women to have more than one romantic love simultaneously.

When we see these 20, 30, fifty year marriages you better believe that these couples have fallen in and out of love with one another several times through out their marriage. I can also guarantee that a lover (on the behalf of the man and the woman) on the side has also come and gone through out the marriage. Sometimes these affairs save marriages, because without that other man or woman to break the monotony, a lot of these 20, 30, fifty year marriages would not have sustained. Other people happen, other loves happen it’s all part of human nature.
Posted: Tuesday September 26th, 2006

SexyD1 ah seh:
luv_moonschild we love but has you pointed out different kinds of love. The other in an intimate relationship can only be infatuation,that never lasts. Notice persons in those 20 to 50 year marriages that had infidelity were never the same. Resentment,heart-break,misery,sorrow,anger and mistrust that becomes embedded deep within and carried there until they part(In death). Mind you,I did not say they did not love while together in the remainder of their marriage but with a heavy weight attached. Accept it or Walk away. Its all about choiceYours.
Posted: Friday September 29th, 2006

shikha ah seh:
let de best lady win!!!!!!!!
Posted: Saturday September 30th, 2006

realgansta ah seh:
a true thing it a sey
Posted: Saturday September 30th, 2006

petrina_425 ah seh:
TRUE TING MALESSIA! Yall have put forward some good pointers. This editorial is very interesting as a cousin of mine is in a situation such as this. Right now she is still with him. Girls! Guys! MY ADVICE TO Y’ALL IS TO B ON GUARD AND WHENEVER U SHLD FIND URSELF QUESTIONING A SITUATION THAT MAY OR MAY NOT FEEL RIGHT, FORGET IT! PEACE! AM OUT!
Posted: Saturday September 30th, 2006

PATRICK LOPEZ ah seh:
quite factual lots more could be said.
Posted: Saturday September 30th, 2006

Luv2dance ah seh:
This is the truth. I think all women have been inna situation like this. I know i have. I was with my ex-man when i found aout he had a son and was living with his Baby Madda. I was devastated because i loved him and he loved me and the problem was he couldnt leave her. So i was forced to move on to bigger things. He still want me it will never happen.
Posted: Monday October 2nd, 2006

eva bless ah seh:
IVE BEEN THERE DONE THAT BECAUSE WHEN YOUR FREE AND SINGLE ITS FUN. WHEN U WANT ENTERTAINING YOU JUST CALL HIM UP AN SEN HIM HOME WHEN YOUR DONE,IF YOU START OUT KNOWING HE HAS A WOMAN AND ITS JUST SEX LEAVE IT AT THAT AND DONT GET ATTACHED BUT IF YOU KNOW THAT WONT BE EASY TO DO AVOID THE SITUATION(JUST A WARNING LADIES ANY GAL WEH MI CATCH WID MY MAN A GET BULLET)
Posted: Tuesday October 3rd, 2006

sherine ah seh:
some true points made but the thing is sometime these men finds out that the woman had fallen for them and they tell the person nothing but lies, that they are going to leave the next person for them and then you keep holding on and waiting for them to be yours only and keep getting even deeper into the relationship because you believed in what they said and you also love them too much to see what is before you. LOVE IS BLIND
Posted: Wednesday October 4th, 2006

sassy13 ah seh:
Anika ah seh:
mi tink weh she a seh a true.Everyday ina the life time the holea the man dem love cheat pon dem woman,and dat na right.Once when deh see they have deh woman dem need fe stop cheat pon dem.When they have dem woman dem think sa dat dem look good.The hole of the man dem need fe stop cheat.
Posted: Wednesday October 4th, 2006

trinilove ah seh:
Men lie thats why they are dogs,but for a woman to deal with a man knowing he has a wifey or whatever shes a road licking b**ch.I believe if u want to sex other people tell me so i could leave or stay,because some of these people are walking STD,s,i dont want to catch nothing.And if i catch any b**tch with my man and she knows hes taken I will deal with the both of them.A man cannot love u if he puts u in a situation to get hurt or sick.And a woman shouldnt go with people man because she know she wouldnt like to be in the other shoes.
Posted: Wednesday October 11th, 2006

arrica ah seh:
trinilove, has a point but dont check the woman because she dont owe you anyting check your man.all men are not dogs.women and men just love differently.and sassy 13 that will never happen.a person can only control and protect themselves/ ourselves.i agree with luv2dance, shes right on point,i can tell she loves herself.burgundy honey you need help,you need to find yourself and someone needs to hug you,history only repeats itself,keep that in mind.burgundy honey back out now,hes not hurting you.your hurting yourself.petrina_425 you go girl.sherine we are all grown,be for real no reason,no chance.god bless all women!we are the true strength!
Posted: Thursday October 12th, 2006

ray-za ah seh:
http://www.myspace.com/1rayza

I am an upcomming reggae artist...thats currently on a mini- tour in Japan.
Posted: Saturday October 14th, 2006

arrica ah seh:
big up ray-za
Posted: Saturday October 14th, 2006

petrina_425 ah seh:
THANX ARRICA!DO U WORK AT PEPPAPOT? IT IS FAIRENUFF TO SAY WE ARE ALL HUMAN AND HUMANS MESS-UP SOMETIMES.WE ARE NOT PERFECT.LOVE COMES IN MISTERIOUS WAYS,IT MAYBE BLIND BUT WHO KNOWS UNTIL WHEN U FIND URSELF IN SOMEONE ELSES SHOES.I MYSELF CANNOT UNDERSTAND LOVE AS CUZ I AM AFRAID TO LOVE CUZ AM AFRAID GETTING HURT.BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY! Sad story huh?
Posted: Friday October 20th, 2006

petrina_425 ah seh:
THAT MESSAGE HAVE SOME REPETITIONS.EXCUSE THEM LOL
Posted: Friday October 20th, 2006

marshatta ah seh:
I love this story because I have the same problem. But the main girl in his life stay in another country. So at this time Im good until she come and stay with him and I dont realli know when will that be but at this time I love being with him. But my feeling for this man has gotten serious. I really dont know what to do. I love him and its hard for me to leave because i tryed it before and it just put me in a situration that I cant control.
Posted: Sunday October 29th, 2006

petrina_425 ah seh:
Hi marshatta!Im not gonna bash u with criticism or anything like that,all am telling u is that u should be careful.In a situation like this u r taking a big risk.U should expect anything in a case like this,i mean,ANYTHING!Just keep the faith and GOODLUCK!
Posted: Monday October 30th, 2006

eriell36 ah seh:
I am in this exact situation right now and am trying my hardest to get out of it and let me say that it is NOT EASY, when you love someone, you love them and sometimes things they do, just dont matter, no it is not right but it is oh so true! I know he loves me, but I know that he loves her too! I gotta get out!
Posted: Thursday November 9th, 2006

Chupsy ah seh:
Thank god mi nuh inna nuh position like dat.But if a mi trust mi mi nuh know weh mi uda do cuz mi neva inna nuh relationship,but mi thing ie da be risk an whos to eva want do it GOODLUCK fi real.
Posted: Sunday December 10th, 2006

petrina_425 ah seh:
Am seeking some Jamaican links on this site cuz am not in the island right now. If any yall wanna converse leave a comment and ill get back 2 u.
:-)
Posted: Monday December 18th, 2006

petrina_425 ah seh:
ANY YALL ON MYSPACE?
Posted: Tuesday December 19th, 2006

MUMMY7 ah seh:
i was in the same situation with a guy, we was friends then we began to have feelings for each other. then all of a sudden it lead up to love. he told me he was going to try and make things work out with his baby mom for the sake of his son.so we decide to be friends a s time went on we fell hard for each other now we are no longer friends because he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. he stop speaking to me because i went out on a date with another man. but hey life goes on not knocking no one if you want to be that other women go ahead but remember you reap what u sow. tek a gal man another gal up back and tek ur. i could not deal with being the other women i am no sidekick and i a damn rass blackberry.. so di thing set
Posted: Wednesday January 3rd, 2007

meone ah seh:
I def. agree with mummy7 she said it right: you do reap what yu sow. Not saying I am perfect b/c I was inna that same situation and believe me when I started to see feelings growing I backed the hell out for my sake and his. I dont want that to happen to me. Plus I am wife material! No matey roun ere
Posted: Tuesday January 16th, 2007

dimplestee ah seh:
IVE READ EVERYONES COMMENTS ON THIS ISSUE, BUT THERE IS ONE FACT THAT NO ONE MENTION IF WE AS WOMEM DID NOT ALLOW MEN TO PUT US IN THIS POSITION, THEY COULD NOT. DO NOT THINK IM PUTTING ALL BLAME ON MEN, BECAUSE IM NOT,WE AS WOMEN HAVE TO BLAME OUR SELF. I HAVE LEARNED WITH TIME AND EXPERIENCES THAT MEN ONLY CAN DO WHAT WE ALLOW THEM TO DO. SO WOMEN STOP!!GIVING MEN THE POWER TO USE US. IF YOU ARE IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS, AND ITS WHAT U WHAT, BY ALL MEANS CONTINUE, BUT IF YOU ARE HURTING AND FEELING REJECTED AND CANT HANDLE IT, REGAIN YOUR POWER AND GET OUT!! IT ONLY GETS WORSE. ALWAYS KNOW THAT U R WORTH MORE. EVERY WOMEN HERE SAID THEY HAVE BEEN IN THIS SITUATION, KNOWING WHAT U FELT WHEN U WERE CHEATED ON(HURT, PAIN, DECEIVED,MANIPULATED AND FRUSTRATED) WHY WOULD U KNOWING IN FLICK THIS PAIN ON ANOTHER WOMEN?? WHAT U DO TO OTHERS WILL COME BACK TO U IN 10 FOLDS.
Posted: Tuesday February 6th, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
well well well....what an interesting topic....i like it cuz i was once in the same situation...and my take on things is that although 20 women/men can be in the same situation they will all have differnt results....i was the other woman for bout 8 mnths and i never liked it just for the mere fact that i always felt guilty for the next girl...but ppl are in all different types of relationship and it just so happened that my now fiance was in 1 where he was not happy but felt that if he left he wud lose certain tings that he ha worked hard for....well after 8 mnths i guess he realised that unless he put an end 2 his unhappy relationship then it wud never happen....plus he wud tell me things and i wud never take him seriously....so 1 day he paked his things and left and he hasnt look back since.....and now 5 yrs on we are still together and i trust him 100%...that relationship taught him alot so now he knows what to do if he ever feels the way he was feeling...and no that is not to cheat...lol....i guess what im saying is that some other woman will forever remain the other woman whilst others (like myself) will get promoted cuz mi a born wifw material...str88888888
Posted: Friday March 2nd, 2007

bajanhotgal ah seh:
sexy_trikai, I understand fully. I was the other woman unknownly for 1 yr, knownly for 3 months. Now I have been wifey for 12 years, and yes I trust him 100%. But Im the one who packed his bags and said Me or Her....I was born wifey material. Cause I could do de same ting you doing. He made his choice.... 12 years...2 kids...later...the blasted man still here. LOL
Posted: Saturday March 17th, 2007

natlee412 ah seh:
this is very educational, encore!! especially to sexy_ and bajan!!!
Posted: Sunday March 18th, 2007

AKASANS ah seh:
MARRIED FOR 13 YEARS AND THE OTHER WOMAN KNEW ABOUT ME AND THE FAMILY AND DIDNT GIVE A RAT ASS AND WHEN I FOUND OUT SHE BREED A PICKNEY FI HIM HE BEGGED ME NOT TO LEAVE AND HE MADE THE CHOICE TO STAY WIT HIM FAMILY. THE NEXT WOMEN CALL ME FI CUSS AND CARRY ON WITH FOOLISHNESS AND DRAG HIM A GO COURT FI MONEY.SHE KNEW ABOUT ME AND I KNEW NOTHING ABOUT HER I DONT UNDERSTAND AND FI BRING A PICKNEY INTO THE SITUTION MAKE IT WORSE WHAT DO YA TELL EM ON BIRTHDAY AND HOLIDAY THAT IS A SAD START FOR A CHILD.IT JUST GOES TO SHOW WHEN YOU DONT HAVE RESPECT 4 YOURSELF DONT EXPECT IT RETURN AND WHEN YOU PUT YOURSELF BETWEEN A MAN AND HIS FAMILY DONT THINK YOUR GOING TO WIN AND HE DOES LEAVE HIS FAMILY FOR YOU THAT MAN IS NOT A CATCH THATS A BOOBEY PRIZE BECAUSE LIKE THE OTHER PERSON SAID WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND 10 TIMES FOLD AND IF ANYONE HAS ANY WORDS OF ADVICE TO BUILD UP A RELATIONSHIP AFTER SOMETHING SO DEVASTATING PLEASE LOG ON ZIN PEACE
Posted: Thursday March 22nd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
AKASANS...i totally symphatise with you but i have this to say....there might be more to the story than meets the eyes...some ppl are very naive and gullible and prolly this girl was one of those ppl....your man (who trust me aint innocent) prolly knew she was and knew her weak spot and preyed on that....the fact that she has to fone u up etc....shows that she either has low self esteem or needs a reason to justify what she had done....your man stooped just as low as this woman did and altho she knew bout u...he was the 1 actually in a situation where he shud have thought about his family in the first place.....and in regards for this baby it is not fair that the child has to suffer....ur husband should step up to the plate and take care of his responsibilities.....and if this woman has taken him to court as u said...then surely he can apply for shared custody.....
Posted: Thursday March 22nd, 2007

sexyhype2007 ah seh:
First, I must sayI really enjoyed reading this article. However it must be stated that there are men capable of being in monogamous relationships and it should never be doubted, however society tolerates infidelity as a part of life. Men become celebrated as gangstas di big man and alot of other proud things while women become whores, b****es, and hoards of other unkind things. So it begin the cycle of infidelit, wives and girlfriends are seen as lucky, instead of deserving. Notice if a man cheats on his woman it because her hole is big or stretch out, or her sex couldnt hold him. If a woman cheats on her man she is nasty and whorin. Society needs to check its media- Women are constantly hated. Music, literature, and movies are painting a very negative picture.
Posted: Thursday March 22nd, 2007

sexyhype2007 ah seh:
First, I must sayI really enjoyed reading this article. However it must be stated that there are men capable of being in monogamous relationships and it should never be doubted, however society tolerates infidelity as a part of life. Men become celebrated as gangstas di big man and alot of other proud things while women become whores, b****es, and hoards of other unkind things. So it begin the cycle of infidelit, wives and girlfriends are seen as lucky, instead of deserving. Notice if a man cheats on his woman it because her hole is big or stretch out, or her sex couldnt hold him. If a woman cheats on her man she is nasty and whorin. Society needs to check its media- Women are constantly hated. Music, literature, and movies are painting a very negative picture.
Posted: Thursday March 22nd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
HYPE.. no one is disputing the fact that some men are capable of being in monogamous relationships. However what we r discussing is triangular relationships involving other women!! All blame cannot be place on n e 1 party...i.e the man or the woman....it takes 2 to tango...and between the lines should always be read!!
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
HYPE.. no one is disputing the fact that some men are capable of being in monogamous relationships. However what we r discussing is triangular relationships involving other women!! All blame cannot be place on n e 1 party...i.e the man or the woman....it takes 2 to tango...and between the lines should always be read!!
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

AKASANS ah seh:
SEXY TRIKAIPLEASE TELL ME HOW YOU WOULD YOU FEEL IF A MAN HAD TO GO SIT UP IN SOME WOMANS HOUSE WHO KNEW ABOUT YOU AND DIDNT GIVE A RAT ASS ABOUT WHAT SHE DID IM SUPPOSE TO CARE ABOUT HER CHILD SUFFERIN SHE DIDNT CARE ABOUT MINE AND I AM NOT ABOUT TO WORRY ABOUT HER OWN I HAVE 3 TO THINK ABOUT .
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
AKASANS....i aint telling u to worry bout her child....but ur husband needs to cuz its his child as well...im not being rude or discouraging but if u read the comments u have made u will realise that u havent been rational cuz u r putting all the blame on this woman....i aint condoning what she did but ur man is just as guilty as she is....u r acting like those women whose men can do whatever and u will still find sum1 else to blame...i have a friend whose partner had a child outside the relationship whilst they were together....and just like u and ur man they decided to give it a next try....the only difference is she made her man take responsibility for what he did and she also thought about the innocent child brought into this world because both her husband and this other womans dishonesty etc.....so all im saying is that its not enuff that u direct all ur anger at this woman...what about ur husband?....and despite the fact that u might not like it he has got another child by another woman.....u made a comment earlier about what kind of man would leave their family for a next woman?....well what kind of man can know that they have a child and make a conscious decision to ignore the childs existence?
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

Unpredictable ah seh:
Wow, this situation is very sticky. Firstly it takes a real woman to understand under those circumstances. And unfortunately not many can look beyond certain things. I would never put a man in any cases where he has to choose between me and his child. I agree broken relationships are always made. But I would rather to walk away if I were to be in the wife position. I mean come on, how can you look at your man knowing he was unfaithful? The child or the unknown woman wouldn’t be my concern. I say the husband has a consequence to face. I’d leave him and it would be up to him to make his choice whether he wants to be in that child’s life. However, I would only leave because I know things wouldn’t be the same on my part. Secondly, how could you continue a relationship with doubts? Besides you can’t possible love someone when you are burnt out. You have to love yourself first. But ladies think about it.. if you are giving your man everything possibly and he agrees. Now tell me why make excuses for him when he screws up. But if you aint doing much…then a next chick will. And dat can’t happen on second thought… s--- if it happened to her it can to me.
sexy_trikai.. I most definitely see where you are coming from but most people aren’t willing to live that way.
Meone yep you have a point.. I mean most girls ask for it… them just matey….
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

Unpredictable ah seh:
Burgundy:
I dont understand this part:

I honestly dont want to ever see myself in a serious relationship with him, simply because I know he may not take our union seriously and he may ultimately cheat on and leave me like he is now doing his wife:

So why do you involve yourself into that situation if your conscience play a guilt.If you are worried about the outcome happening to you later if you take that road... well it will because what goes around comes back around. Plus tell da youth deh fi grow up bout... in it fi child.. Come on now, he should do his children a favor and leave.. then worse you meet them.. a weh di rass.
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
lol...lol....unpredictable i agree with you...its obvious that other women like BERGUNDY are simple just in for fun and games....she said it herself that she wouldnt commit to him seriously!! so whats the point in her putting her self in that position?....and if she believe di idiot man bout because a pickney....she just as bad....thats some lame ass excuse that ppl use to use back in the days not now in 2007!! BERGUNDYS relationship makes absolutely no sense to me as i think others will agree...
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

tbee ah seh:
the fact of the matter is most of yall might very well be the other woman cause some man will neverset things straight when they wanna get with u....he will more often than not say he aint with nobody, also as it relates to married men getting kids in other unions while still being married...a big carelessness dat, a same way the package coulda mark AIDS instead of BABY..unno see carl stone wife?...think about your own happiness and face the music de real way becuz as much as u dont want to loose your man u have to remember that this is life and to thine own self be true!
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

AKASANS ah seh:
SEXY-TRIKAI....I LOVE YOUR FEEDBACK BUT BUT LIKE BURGUNDY IF YOUR GOING TO PLAY THE SIDE B**** THEN STAY THERE. I NEVER PUT ALL THE BLAME ON THE OTHER PERSON ALTHOUGH SHE IS 9 YEARS OLDER THAN MY HUSBAND AND SHE HAS BEEN DIVORCED SO SHE HAS BEEN AROUND,BUT ANYWAY OF COURSE IM STILL MAD DEEP IN MY HEART BUT YOU ALSO HAVE TO REALIZE PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES AND ITS NOT GOING TO BE SAME I KNOW THAT BUT I HAVE KIDS AND ALTHOUGH THATS A LAME EXCUSE THEY ARE MY PRIORITY AND IM NOT GOING TO HAVE MY KIDS SUFFER BETWEEN EVERY OTHER WEEKEND AND EXPLAINING THINGS TO THEM.THE FACT THAT HE HAS A CHILD OUT THERE THAT IS 4 HIM 2 LIVE WITH ON HIS CONSCIENCE.
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
AKASANS....so it seems like u r saying that the kids r the main reason u r with this guy?....girl trust me if that is so...then in the long run its gonna do more harm than good cuz kids can feed off bad energy and they will sense that mama aint really happy....so long as u provide a safe and happy home for ur children tahts all taht matters....u didnt do n e thing wrong so u shudnt be the 1 to try and make things right....girl u gotta put urself first....u and ur kids are ur number 1 priority....so long as u guys are happy...and kids dont need to suffer cuz tehir parents broke up!!....mine did and i never suffered...cuz i got love from both side....plus when they grow up the will understand...mama did no wrong....have u heard the saying... HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED?...well honey uve been burnt are u gonna wait to be scorned?....its entirely up 2 u!!
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

tbee ah seh:
the fact of the matter is most of yall might very well be the other woman cause some man will neverset things straight when they wanna get with u....he will more often than not say he aint with nobody, also as it relates to married men getting kids in other unions while still being married...a big carelessness dat, a same way the package coulda mark AIDS instead of BABY..unno see carl stone wife?...think about your own happiness and face the music de real way becuz as much as u dont want to loose your man u have to remember that this is life and to thine own self be true!
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

AKASANS ah seh:
SEXY-TRIKAI... IM NOT TRYING TO CONVINCE MYSELF OR MAKE EXCUSES BUT EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE AND THE ROAD IS NOT EZ HES NOT A BOY FRIEND AND I DONT KNOW IF YOUR MARRIED BUT ITS DIFFERENT TO SAY F*** U AND LEAVE.
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

Unpredictable ah seh:
AKASANS

I agree but second chances are completely up to whether you can live with the truth and most people cant.
In every situation it is different to walk out... marriage makes it more complicated because most people dont want to turn back after all that work..then again most people stay within it because of their society and environment they are in. Now if hes your boy friend people find it easier to leave. I guess it cost less to find another man than it does to find a husband.. so to speak.
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
AKASANS....so ud rather stay in a broken marriage than b free?....well thats ur preference!! if all women were to say that...then men everywhere would keep on doing what the hell they like with the expectation that their wives will say we r married so im gonna give him another chance.....well i aint married but my relationship is just like a marriage except for the legal jargon so to speak....i aint saying that i would never give a second chance but there are limits...and as far as im concerned ur husband has passed the limits....but u must kno what u r worth...i just think u r worth more!
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

AKASANS ah seh:
WELL ONE CHANCE AND 1 CHANCE HE ONLY HAS . AND I USED TO SAY THE SAME THING IF HE EVER CHEATED ON ME OHH ID LEAVE THAT MUTHAF***** AND THEN WHEN YOUR IN THE SITUATION AND IT HAPPENS YOUR STUCCK BETWEEN A ROCK AND A HARD PLACE.BELIEVE ME I KNOW WHAT IM WORTH I CAN TAKE CARE OF MY BUSINESS IF NEED BE.
Posted: Friday March 23rd, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
AKASANS....as far as im concerned there is more to the story than u r letting on.....u asked for advice and when u get it u r on the defensive side!! how do u now ur husband aint doing the dirty on u now???? u mus kno y u deh wid him but all mi a seh a cut di crap bout pickney and marriage...cuz they arent the real reasons!!
Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007

AKASANS ah seh:
SEXY-TRIKAI... HOW DO YOU THINK MI DEFENSIVE STAR?
Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007

sexy_trikai ah seh:
AKASANS....lol..lol.....read di whole a di comment dem whe u leave in response 2 what i or sum1 else have said....altho u seh u r not making excuses thats exactly what it seems like 2 me!! I CAN TAKE CARE OF MY BUSINESS IF NEEDS BE....suh u obviously feel this situation isnt 1 whe u need fi tek care a u business!!
Posted: Saturday March 24th, 2007

jamaicanbrownin ah seh:
Well I am a woman with lots of respect for myself so ofcourse I would never settle for being the other woman.... but as lon as I am wifey and I know I come before everyone I am fine. I am not saying I am okay with my man having other girls but when it comes down to it thats all they are, I am not a sex machine and thats what men like so ofcourse if your not giving it to him then you should know that someone else is. My only thing is as long as no one is calling my phone saying they have MY MAN or trying to fight me for him then I am fine. No jamaican man is gonna have one woman alone, it nah guh suh. I just think that as long as i am wifey and nuh gal nah call up mi name fi mi man then mi alright.
Posted: Monday May 21st, 2007

tae`janae ah seh:
^^ okay^^... anyways i am sort of in the same situation. me n this guy met abt five yrs ago he was not married n at that time didnt have sum1. he wanted to get with me but at that time made it clear that he also wanted to get married to sort out his papers. at that time i was only 18 and marriage was not on my mind at all so i told him i couldnt do it as he only had a cpl months to sort it. he ened up getting with this next girl and got married within a few weeks, after a cpl of months they started to live together as she got pregnant. all this time me and him stayed frends though he told me he wanted to further it. to be honest i wanted him but i was not prepared to feel just like a fu.ck buddy. we hanged out a lot we did lots of things together but never had sex and came close to kissing a few times. i hated it evey time he had to leave and then a few of months ago he asked for a divorce and got it. he now lives by himself with his son and have started dating properly we still havent had sex... i just want to be sure we are doing the right thing but now he has proposed to me and i dont know wat to do....
Posted: Friday June 1st, 2007

aidonia_ukku ah seh:
I HAVE BEEN TEMPTED BUT I SEE WHAT IT DOES TO WOMEN ALL OVER THE WORLD AND I LISTEN TO MUSIC THAT CLEARLY STATES EVENTS I WOULDNT WANT TO BE A PART OF SO I TRY TO STAY OUT OF SITUATIONS LIKE THAT BECAUSE U ARE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE WHOS BEIN DISHONEST THERES A GOOD CHANCE ULL BE NO DIFFERENT AND I HAVE ENUFF CONFIDENCE IN MYSELF TO LOOK FOR WHAT IM INTRESTED IN THAN TO TAKE FROM SOMEONES PLATE,I CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE #1 SO I DONT EVER WANT TO BE THE NEXT WOMAN OUTSIDE BECAUSE IT GETS COLD,WHERE IS HE WHEN U MOST LIKELY NEED HIM AWAY OR AT HOME
Posted: Saturday December 1st, 2007

star1 ah seh:
I think it is despicable that women, west Indian women would accept this sort of behavior. I am not judging, I have been unlucky enough to be in love with a womanizer, and have a child with him as well, but you know what, I fight to the death to let that man know that he is scum of the earth if he looks into my beautiful face, and the beautiful face of his son and then tells hisself that we are not enough. I despise men who do not have self- control. In America and abroad, black people have the highest rates for sexually transmitted diseases. This is why. Its plain and simple that we as a culture are killing ourselves. Humans primarily will have one house, one car, one God, one Career- So it should be the same standard in terms of having one life partner to share your life with. Anything else is just ridiculous and unacceptable. My childs father and I have to keep our distance from each other now, because I really would take his life from him if I knew of half of the terrible action he partakes in to dishonor me and my child. Some women are born to act like the princesses that God made them to be. Some women will always be satisfied with less. The cheating, double-minded man or women will reap what they sow. Their position is not to be envied at all.
Posted: Monday December 24th, 2007

bummy91 ah seh:
i just happened to stumble on to this discussion. What is evident is the lacking of people taking responsibility for their actions. Releationships are so funny, diverse and complex but usually it is this way because of how they begin. choosing a life partner is a decision we rarely take seriously and it is such an important decision something that will affect our life more than anything we could possibly imagine, yet we treat it so non-chalant. what are the steps to finding that person you want to spend the rest of your life with. My friends its a process and if you choose not to follow the steps then its possible you will end up down the wrong road. Now let me say the quest for the perfect person is a myth that as eluded us for centuries because lo and behold no such person exist. By now you are wondering where am i going with this but be patient im getting there.Believe me what you ought to be looking for in a mate, a life partner is someone with the samevalue system as your self, yep you see people can say anything but do their actions say otherwise. have you heard the saying a leopard cant change its spots this is so true my friends no one can hide who they are from you for too long so if you be patient and look and listen you will see who they are .But here is another thing what happens after that, this is critical. If your value system is intact you wont compromise who you are and what you believe in, not with one of the most important decision of your life. If he or she is a bulls---ter walk away usually we know when we are been played we just ignore it but thats the time to be vigilant and stand up for your values.
In that initial stage of courtship lay of the physical and get with the mental. trust me talk and listen, play games look at the personality everyday this person reveals who he or she is just LOOK. It is also important to date more than one person note not sleep with more than one person DATE its different as you go along youll find someone whos value system either matches or comes close to yours.oh by the way here is a hint the person who says it and does it would be a good candidate to consider. and if you didnt get that the person who talks the talk and walks the walk accountability is everything.
Now for the ladies who found out after a year that the man has a family you werent paying attention or you knew something was wrong but because your value system was broken you choose to ignore it, i think it would be extremly dificult for somebody to live a double life without you knowing infact think about it, its almost impossible. and if you care to admit you saw the signs and chose to ignore them. For the women who are now wives and trust the man 100% u know you are ln denial you know its likely he will cheat on you too and pains you the stomach but you have already committed yourself to the facade of what you call a marriage. No im not judging what you got but what was so life changing for this guy that he wanted to change ill bet a hundred bucks you think its you. iF HE WAS REAL HE WOULD HAVE ENDED THE RELEATIONSHIP WITH HIS WOMAN B4 TRYING TO GET WITH YOU people who do that has lready showed you what he or she can do and will do. now there a some people who can take charge and control of their lives and change all by themselves but the probability is so slim .most need help to get over terrible releationships so i do recommend counselling. for you and the man lots f it, i tell you we fool ourselves all the time.
Now for the women who are knowingly sleeping the husbands, boyfriends and fiance . you best believe there is karma . and another thing with women i dont get you dont want a man who will c heat on you but you wll sleep with some other womans man. If that man should leave that woman for you can you say you can ever trust him plus all the thing he does to you sexually he does with her and some how that seems to be cool with you .true story guys can stick is thing in his girl without rubbers come to you and do the same or ive heard stories where the other woman gives him oralor even anal sex dosent that freak you out.
come on now lets all do the right and if we cant get there lets try to get as close as possible. .
Posted: Saturday April 12th, 2008